Why do all my male bestie ends up falling in love with me. How I do tell them that I don’t have feelings for him?
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Tell him that you respect his feelings but you cannot reciprocate it.
Be gentle dear, if he is actually your best friend and if you truly care about him.
Start with talking about what your mental image of your prospective partner is and how different it is to your best friend’s personality.
Tell him that this person would make you happy like no other. Your friend will himself bow out after a few such discussions.
From a guys perspective, I think they end up falling in love with you is because they know you as a friend and might think of you a wife material, As guys always fall in love with a person with whom they can have future with.
How would you know that they are falling in love with you?
I mean maybe you are misreading their actions or words.
Or maybe it’s a physical attraction. In that case, I strongly suggest you warn these supposed ‘friends’ to hold it in.