What is the worst experience you’ve had with a girl, dating or not ?
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Not me, but a friend of mine (Raj, lets call him).
Raj met a girl (say Riya) on a well known 🙄 marriage website. This was during the months following demonetization (you’ll understand later). He got a request from Riya, who had no photo or description on her bidoata page, but she asked for his number. Raj gave it to her, thinking whats the worst that could happen.
Riya sent a mesage on whatsapp after 2 days. Her DP was beautiful. Raj immediately messaged back, and the chats continued for 2-3 days. She then called Raj up, and her voice was mesmerizing! Raj could just not belive his luck. They would talk for hours. Raj was in Mumbai, Riya said she’s from Lucknow.
Finally, they decided to meet. Her flight was in the late night. Raj was excited through the day, waiting for the moment he would see her.
Riya called up when she was about to start from her home. After half an hour, Raj received a call from her:
Riya: Raj, there is a problem, I think i will miss the flight.
Raj (disoriented): What happened yar?
Riya: There is some issue with the cab that drove me here. My parents are also not in town, I have called a friend to help me out, but he by the time he gets here, flight will leave.
Raj: TELL me, what happned?
Riya: It’s embarrasing, please. Let’s postpone the idea. I will call you later.
Raj (now desperate): Tell me yar.
Riya: Actually (a huge pause) , I forgot to bring my purse with me, and I cannot pay the driver.
Raj (hugely relieved): Is that all? I will send you the money right now.
Riya: actually, can you UPI him directly? His UPI id is Ramesh 50000.
Raj: Sure. Though I am not very familiar with UPI’s. I havent used it even once.
Riya: I know Raj, you had told me how old fashioned you are. i will aske the driver to send you a request , just put your pin when asked.
Raj: Of course.
Raj puts the pin when Ramesh 50,000 appears on his page.
He then calls Riya back.
But the phone is switched off.
He keeps on calling and calling and calling. He hears the ping of an incoming message, but ignores it.
Raj is frenzied, and calls me immediately. I reach his place and he tells me everything, all the time going mad with worry.
I ask him to show me his phone.
Its what I was afraid of. I show him the upopened SMS of 50,000 being debited from his account.
And this was the story of the worst not-date ever.
I found a girl on a jobs FB group. I liked her responses and messaged her privately. We started chatting, and we seemed to really connect.
It turned out that she lived very near to me. We immediately decided to meet up.
I reached at the said time, with a rose bouquest and chocolate. After waiting for almost half an hour, I call her up. She picked , upon which I hear 2 sets of voices. She says she’s reaching in 5 minutes and cuts. I wait for 15 minutes, when I see her entering the restaurant.
But imagine my surprise , when I see a boy with her!
She came right to me, and introduced this guy as her “very good friend”. She said he did not want to send me alone to meet a stranger.
They sit on the other side of me, side by side, almost touching.
The guy takes my chocolate and starts eating it. Doesn’t let me talk to the girl at all. They both were talking all the time through the meal. I felt so cheated.
I thought I cannot let her get away with this. I went to washroom, and took out my card and extra cash , and hide in my underwear.
I go back, finish eating and call for bill.
When bill came, they both kept avoiding me. I took out wallet and put 200Rs in it, and told them to pay remaining.
They both got so angry!
But i said sorry, showed them the empty wallet and just left.
That was a weird day.
I had just started dating a girl, and after a few dates, she invited me to her parents’ home for dinner as a first-time introduction.
Well, the dinner and conversation went really well. However, during the course of the dinner, I happened to look down and see that my fly was open! That was bad enough, but now I had to slowly and discretely zip it up. Fortunately, over the course of the next, and longest, 20 minutes, I managed to do it without anyone noticing.
When dinner was done, I took my plate and my dates to the kitchen in an attempt to impress my parents with my manners and courtesy. I pulled away from the table and made the turn to head there. As I did this, I heard the horrifying sounds of broken glass, things hitting the floor, people gasping, and liquid splashing all over me. I turned around to see what had happened as everyone’s gasps turned to uncontrollable laughter! I stood there with both hands occupied, the plates and tablecloth dangling from the zipper of my pant!