We have been married since 16 years. However, I had left my job when I had my first kid 13 years back. Now, kids are more or less self-dependent, so, after a break of 13 long years, I have recently started working again. However, my husband has started asking me weird questions everyday when I reach back home; like who do I talk to all day, who do I work with specifically. He has also started checking my phone, something he has never done before. Is he doubting me? How do I ask him to keep trust on me?
It’s been 13 years since your husband is seeing you at home. Now suddenly, his point of view has changed, as he sees you doing things like going out and coming back late, and talking about new people.
You should give him time to adjust to your routine. I am sure things will return to normal soon. 😄 😄
I agree with @Jenny
Maybe he’s a little jealous that he is not the centre of your universe anymore😏
Just give it more time and make sure you do tell him about everything, so that he doesnt feel insecure that you are hiding things.
if he’s asking, then tell him about everything and everyone in big details.
Trust me, men get bored so easily with this banter. He will himself stop you very soon.