We are a newly married couple. Initially everything was ok. However, within 2-3 months of getting married, I am noticing huge changes in my wife. She is very controlling and dominating at home. It started with small things, like putting the plate in sink immediately after eating (I like to sit at place for a while after eating). Or insisting that I change clothes immediately after a reach home (she wouldn’t even let me have a glass of water). Now, she has started monitoring how long I talk with anyone, be it my office or mother or even a friend! It’s getting very suffocating. How do I ask her to let me be, without sounding too rude?