There’s this guy who I matched with on a dating app. He immediately wanted to start talking on Snapchat, so we did. I expected to talk about each other, learn a bit and see if we’re compatible, you know. He didn’t seem to want to talk about that and instead wanted to talk more about how I was the hottest girl he’d ever seen, how I am still single, blah blah blah.
I said I wanted a proper relationship and I told him I felt like he only wanted to be friends with ‘benefits. .
So I just told him I felt like we weren’t gonna work out. He is now binge messaging me.
He says he has social anxiety and depression and “needs” me.
I feel so horrible, but I just didn’t want to date him. I’ve tried letting him down gently and it isn’t working. What should I do?
block him girl, your own safety in much more important than his “feelings”
peace!
Just block him on the dating app and ghost him on snapchat. If he’s looking for physical relation only, that means you are his current target. He’ll stop at nothing until he has you and as soon as he does, you’ll be disposable. Save yourself the trouble and just stop responding.
I would delete the Snapchat app for a while. Please don’t be fooled. He has showed u who he is from the beginning. His insecurities & needs are not your problem. Do not take responsibility for HIS feelings!!!
BLOCK HIM
You have to out for scammers and manipulators on such dating sites. There are predators out there looking for naive girls to do God knows what! Be gone with him!