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A friend of mine has finally left her very abusive relationship. Even though he never physically harmed her, but he was such a narcissist. Poor girl was left with literally no confidence and no friends or life outside marriage, Finally she met another man (a colleague) who has helped her …

A friend of mine has finally left her very abusive relationship. Even though he never physically harmed her, but he was such a narcissist. Poor girl was left with literally no confidence and no friends or life outside marriage, Finally she met another man (a colleague) who has helped her make this decision of leaving her husband. She is staying with me for a while now, till her divorce gets final. The problem is that she keeps crying that she could not sustain her relationship. i mean, why is she feeling guilty of coming out a relationship with that monster!!!

I have a very serious girlfriend since 5 years. the problem is I am leaving abroad next month for higher studies. I will be out for at least 1 year, and there is no chance that we will be able to meet before 1 year. Also, there is 12 hour …

ammar Shaikh Seeker

I have a very serious girlfriend since 5 years. the problem is I am leaving abroad next month for higher studies. I will be out for at least 1 year, and there is no chance that we will be able to meet before 1 year. Also, there is 12 hour time difference between us. my night will be her day. I am truly scared that we will not be able to sustain relationship. I know many friends who broke up within months of long distance relationship. I don’t want to leave her, she is my soulmate. please guide me ...

I am in a process of divorcing my cheating abusive husband of 5 years. I have one child, but he is staying with mother and father, so its not a problem. The thing is this husband is openly talking non sense about me to everyone. He is putting insulting quotes …

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I am in a process of divorcing my cheating abusive husband of 5 years. I have one child, but he is staying with mother and father, so its not a problem. The thing is this husband is openly talking non sense about me to everyone. He is putting insulting quotes on his fb, and it is obvious that he is talking about me. He even called a few common friends to tell them that I was cheating on him, hence he left me. I am so angry right now! Can i take a legal action against him?

a friend of mine is very heart broken over her break up with her bf from years. he cheated on her, but is now saying that he will not do so again, and asking her to take him back. My friend is confused. Should she give him a second chance?

Alexa Seeker

a friend of mine is very heart broken over her break up with her bf from years. he cheated on her, but is now saying that he will not do so again, and asking her to take him back. My friend is confused. Should she give him a second chance?

I saw this question asked a few times, but my situation is a little different, I recently got married – it was an arranged marriage , but with my consent only, I do love my wife. There is this senior lady in my office who used to hit on me …

Akash Life is difficult, but it goes on

I saw this question asked a few times, but my situation is a little different, I recently got married – it was an arranged marriage , but with my consent only, I do love my wife. There is this senior lady in my office who used to hit on me since the time I had joined company some 5 years back. Now that I have gotten married, she has somehow upped her attentions! She literally comes to my cubicle 3-4 times in a day, sits beside me and just talks non work related things. Even my department colleagues find it ...

This is something quiet common I think, but I dont know how to deal. My husband gives me just enough money for houeshold kharcha. Not even 100 rs more. If I have to buy anything else, i have to ask him and he decides if I should buy it. He …

Vamika Seeker Lost myself trying to please everyone else!

This is something quite common I think, but I dont know how to deal. My husband gives me just enough money for houeshold kharcha. Not even 100 rs more. If I have to buy anything else, i have to ask him and he decides if I should buy it. He earns good, he buys expensive dresses for me also sometime. But they are never my choice. And if I dont wear them, he dont buy anything for me for a long time. What should i do?

Guys, this is in continuation to my previous query, https://absolutetalks.com/my-cousin-is-a-23-year-old-woman/ So, my cousin is supposed to get married to this guy in a few months – arranged marraige. he and his family had initially said they require no dowry. Even then my relatives had told them that they will give …

Ruchita Seeker Engineer

Guys, this is in continuation to my previous query, https://absolutetalks.com/my-cousin-is-a-23-year-old-woman/ So, my cousin is supposed to get married to this guy in a few months – arranged marraige. he and his family had initially said they require no dowry. Even then my relatives had told them that they will give a car, I-10 to them. Now suddenly they are saying that they want a creta car and they should provide 10 lakh cash as booking amount for a new home the boy will buy after marraige. My cousin is of course very angry and wants to break off ...

I am totally frustrated. My elder brother-in-law had come to visit us last month. He is a divorcee and works from home. So, he has no obligations anywhere else. I thought he will leave in a few days, but it has been more than one month. My husband goes to …

Anonymous

I am totally frustrated. My elder brother-in-law had come to visit us last month. He is a divorcee and works from home. So, he has no obligations anywhere else. I thought he will leave in a few days, but it has been more than one month. My husband goes to office, and BIL just sits in the drawing room and keeps watching me do house work, does not say anything, just stares. We have a full-time maid also, so I am not really worried, physically. But it weirds me out. I don;t even know what to tell to my husband, ...

Why does break up feel like a physical pain? Like I will never come out of this. I will never sleep again, never feel like eating or even talking to another person again.

Anonymous

Why does break up feel like a physical pain? Like I will never come out of this. I will never sleep again, never feel like eating or even talking to another person again.

My husband is just so angry all the time. He get up, shout for food, water, clothes, anything. Then shouts at me before going to office to tell me to do house work properly. I do everything, no maid at all. Then he come home late in night, and never …

Anonymous

My husband is just so angry all the time. He get up, shout for food, water, clothes, anything. Then shouts at me before going to office to tell me to do house work properly. I do everything, no maid at all. Then he come home late in night, and never like what I cook, even if i cook his fav. Then he say house is not clean, his clothes is not clean, what I do all day, just sit and watch TV? He never hit me, never. or say bad words to me. But he is angry. He was not ...

I have a problem, my bf says he loves me a lot. We are going out for 6 months. But he never shows me his whatsapp. He takes his phone even in bathroom. His whatsapp is face-locked, I cannot open it. I feel that he is hide something. What can …

Nisha Seeker A dreamer

I have a problem, my bf says he loves me a lot. We are going out for 6 months. But he never shows me his whatsapp. He takes his phone even in bathroom. His whatsapp is face-locked, I cannot open it. I feel that he is hide something. What can I do to see his chats?

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