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Asked: September 14In: Relationships

A friend of mine has finally left her very abusive relationship. Even though he never physically harmed her, but he was such a narcissist. Poor girl was left with literally no confidence and no friends or life outside marriage, Finally she met another man (a colleague) who has helped her …

Aarchi
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A friend of mine has finally left her very abusive relationship. Even though he never physically harmed her, but he was such a narcissist. Poor girl was left with literally no confidence and no friends or life outside marriage, Finally ...Read more

A friend of mine has finally left her very abusive relationship. Even though he never physically harmed her, but he was such a narcissist. Poor girl was left with literally no confidence and no friends or life outside marriage, Finally she met another man (a colleague) who has helped her make this decision of leaving her husband.
She is staying with me for a while now, till her divorce gets final. The problem is that she keeps crying that she could not sustain her relationship. i mean, why is she feeling guilty of coming out a relationship with that monster!!!
I am actually feeling angry with her. He treated her like a doormat through 5 years, and now also she is letting him ruin her life.
I just cannot understand this.

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    Absolute Talks Admin
    Added an answer on September 15 at Thursday

    We recently approached an Expert to answer a similar query. Hope this video helps

    We recently approached an Expert to answer a similar query. Hope this video helps

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Asked: January 23In: Legal Advice

My husband always makes fun of my dark complexion. Many times I tried to make him understand that’s I don’t like making fun of myself, but he continuously does it.What should I do to make him stop saying anything about my complexion, because I am really fed up of these …

Aditi
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My husband always makes fun of my dark complexion. Many times I tried to make him understand that’s I don’t like making fun of myself, but he continuously does it.What should I do to make him stop saying anything about ...Read more

My husband always makes fun of my dark complexion. Many times I tried to make him understand that’s I don’t like making fun of myself, but he continuously does it.What should I do to make him stop saying anything about my complexion, because I am really fed up of these things.

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  1. Meena_Aunty Relationship Advisor Expert Relationship Advisor
    Added an answer on January 23 at Monday
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    Hi, i am not sure why your husband is insisting on you wearing make up all the time? Is he himself spic n span throughout the day? If so, then maybe it's something important to him. Like I am a cleanliness freak, and I expect my husband to keep everything neat and clean too. I'd really suggest talkiRead more

    • Hi, i am not sure why your husband is insisting on you wearing make up all the time? Is he himself spic n span throughout the day? If so, then maybe it’s something important to him. Like I am a cleanliness freak, and I expect my husband to keep everything neat and clean too.
    • I’d really suggest talking this out with him. Come to a compromise from both sides, because wearing make up all the time is of course not feasible, neither is it good for your skin. But making him feel important in your life is also necessary. Try and talk in depth, you both will definitely be able to work a middle way out.Β 
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Asked: January 25In: Relationships

We r married snce 23 yrs now. my husband use to beat me (only when drunk) in front of my children. now, both my kids hv left home to go to colg. I do not want to be alone with hsband at all. It is been more thn 1 yr …

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We r married snce 23 yrs now. my husband use to beat me (only when drunk) in front of my children. now, both my kids hv left home to go to colg. I do not want to be alone with ...Read more

We r married snce 23 yrs now. my husband use to beat me (only when drunk) in front of my children. now, both my kids hv left home to go to colg. I do not want to be alone with hsband at all. It is been more thn 1 yr when he last beated me. But i am scared that he will start again. please tell me how can i stop him frm drinking wihtout his knwldg.

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    Added an answer on January 25 at Wednesday

    Dear Riya, now that your kids have left home, there is literallyΒ  nothing to keep you in that house! why dont you think of leaving him? why not spend the rest of your life in peace instead of constant fear of this person who is so toxic?

    Dear Riya, now that your kids have left home, there is literallyΒ  nothing to keep you in that house! why dont you think of leaving him? why not spend the rest of your life in peace instead of constant fear of this person who is so toxic?

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Asked: January 16In: Legal Advice

Someone just told me β€œNever marry a daughter of a divorced mother”, is it true? if yes, why?

Hardik Cool
Hardik Cool

Someone just told me β€œNever marry a daughter of a divorced mother”, is it true? if yes, why?

Someone just told me β€œNever marry a daughter of a divorced mother”, is it true? if yes, why?

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  1. viral Explainer Being cool is being your own self, not doing something that someone else is telling you to do.
    Added an answer on January 16 at Monday

    WOAAA judgmental much It pains me to think that people still nurture such unreasonable notions. or maybe they are afraid that a strong woman (strong cos she took this courageous decision to leave a marriage in our orthodox society), her daughter will be as strong as she is. And you won't be able toRead more

    WOAAA
    judgmental much
    It pains me to think that people still nurture such unreasonable notions.
    or maybe they are afraid that a strong woman (strong cos she took this courageous decision to leave a marriage in our orthodox society), her daughter will be as strong as she is.
    And you won’t be able to put your rules on her!
    Weird man
    I strongly wish people would rise above all this.

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Asked: January 16In: Relationships

My wedding has been fixed. My prospective husband calls me often to arrange secret meetings and to put pressure on me to date him. What should I to do?

Absolute Talks
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My wedding has been fixed. My prospective husband calls me often to arrange secret meetings and to put pressure on me to date him. What should I to do?

My wedding has been fixed. My prospective husband calls me often to arrange secret meetings and to put pressure on me to date him. What should I to do?

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  1. viral Explainer Being cool is being your own self, not doing something that someone else is telling you to do.
    Added an answer on January 17 at Tuesday

    I don't think there is anything wrong in wanting to meet the person you are going to spend your life with. Arranged marriages anyways don't offer much chance of knowing the person beforehand. But your comfort is important. You can meet him in public places, with a friend with you if required. Some cRead more

    I don’t think there is anything wrong in wanting to meet the person you are going to spend your life with. Arranged marriages anyways don’t offer much chance of knowing the person beforehand.
    But your comfort is important. You can meet him in public places, with a friend with you if required. Some casual catch ups would give you a chance to know who you are marrying, and would improve your relationship, I believe.
    Peace✌️

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Asked: January 17In: Relationships

I am just here to thank @Shila Dave mam for helping my friend out from her toxic relationship! I was so afraid that she was going into depression, but thankfully she is a like a new person now. Of course she;s not ready to get into another relationship yet, but …

Babs
Babs Seeker I deserve the life I desire

I am just here to thank @Shila Dave mam for helping my friend out from her toxic relationship! I was so afraid that she was going into depression, but thankfully she is a like a new person now. Of course ...Read more

I am just here to thank @Shila Dave mam for helping my friend out from her toxic relationship!
I was so afraid that she was going into depression, but thankfully she is a like a new person now.
Of course she;s not ready to get into another relationship yet, but I am sure she will get there.
Guys, therapies do work. Please do not hesitate to reach out if you feel a situation is causing you too much hurt.
God bless you Shila mam

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  1. Babs Seeker I deserve the life I desire
    Added an answer on January 18 at Wednesday

    https://absolutetalks.com/profile/shila/

    https://absolutetalks.com/profile/shila/

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Asked: January 18In: Relationships

I am married to my school friend’s sister (who was younger to us by years). Our’s was an arranged marriage. That my wife’s sister was my school friend was found after our marriage was finalized. …

Hardik Cool
Hardik Cool

I am married to my school friend’s sister (who was younger to us by years). Our’s was an arranged marriage. That my wife’s sister was my school friend was found after our marriage was finalized. So, obviously, whenever I have ...Read more

I am married to my school friend’s sister (who was younger to us by years). Our’s was an arranged marriage. That my wife’s sister was my school friend was found after our marriage was finalized. So, obviously, whenever I have met my friend, we talk like before, but my wife keeps doubting us. What to do?

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Asked: January 16In: Relationships

If you met your soulmate when you were young in life, both married to other people, and still have an emotional and physical relationship with them, are you cheating on your spouse or your soulmate?

Absolute Talks
Absolute Talks Admin

If you met your soulmate when you were young in life, both married to other people, and still have an emotional and physical relationship with them, are you cheating on your spouse or your soulmate?

If you met your soulmate when you were young in life, both married to other people, and still have an emotional and physical relationship with them, are you cheating on your spouse or your soulmate?

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    Added an answer on January 17 at Tuesday

    Yes because it seems you and this individual made a choice to keep in contact and be physical with each other knowing darn well you are both married to other people. You are setting yourself and the other person up for failure and that's not real love. If you truly believed this person was your soulRead more

    Yes because it seems you and this individual made a choice to keep in contact and be physical with each other knowing darn well you are both married to other people. You are setting yourself and the other person up for failure and that’s not real love. If you truly believed this person was your soulmate, you would have tied the knot (got married to them) with them and not some other individual (your also setting up your current wife to be extremely hurt) so I have to believe your β€œsoulmate” idea might be one sided. But if that’s the case, why would you want someone who is more than likely being unfaithful to not only you, her current husband but probably others your not aware of.

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Asked: January 13In: Relationships

How do I tell my friend (with benefits) to stop saying he loves me? I’ve told him before I’m not emotionally ready for a relationship but he doesn’t get it. My anxiety is at it’s peak and I’m ready to block my only friend.

Sophia
Sophia Seeker Still learning about Life...

How do I tell my friend (with benefits) to stop saying he loves me? I’ve told him before I’m not emotionally ready for a relationship but he doesn’t get it. My anxiety is at it’s peak and I’m ready to ...Read more

How do I tell my friend (with benefits) to stop saying he loves me? I’ve told him before I’m not emotionally ready for a relationship but he doesn’t get it. My anxiety is at it’s peak and I’m ready to block my only friend.

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  1. Aarchi Explainer
    Added an answer on January 14 at Saturday

    Love means different things to different people. I love my dog. I love coffee. I love night blooming flowers. It’s not a marriage proposal. Unless he’s not trying to move in. Relax and don’t say it back unless you both understand what you mean.

    Love means different things to different people. I love my dog. I love coffee. I love night blooming flowers. It’s not a marriage proposal. Unless he’s not trying to move in. Relax and don’t say it back unless you both understand what you mean.

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Asked: January 13In: Legal Advice

Why do exes come back months and even years later wanting to give things another try, when they refused to work things out at the time of the break-up when it mattered?

Absolute Talks
Absolute Talks Admin

Why do exes come back months and even years later wanting to give things another try, when they refused to work things out at the time of the break-up when it mattered?

Why do exes come back months and even years later wanting to give things another try, when they refused to work things out at the time of the break-up when it mattered?

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  1. Aarchi Explainer
    Added an answer on January 13 at Friday

    Hey, they come to disrupt your happiness because they have been disappointed in their current relationship, not because they miss you. It’s never about you-only them.

    Hey, they come to disrupt your happiness because they have been disappointed in their current relationship, not because they miss you. It’s never about you-only them.

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Asked: January 12In: Relationships

My girlfriend has a male best friend. She says she loves both of us, but in different ways. Should I be worried? They live in different cities, but they Face Time every night and she gets upset when they don’t. She leaves my call to talk with him.

Ketan
Ketan Seeker

My girlfriend has a male best friend. She says she loves both of us, but in different ways. Should I be worried? They live in different cities, but they Face Time every night and she gets upset when they don’t. ...Read more

My girlfriend has a male best friend. She says she loves both of us, but in different ways. Should I be worried? They live in different cities, but they Face Time every night and she gets upset when they don’t. She leaves my call to talk with him.

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  1. Aarchi Explainer
    Added an answer on January 13 at Friday

    Hey, don’t take it lightly but don’t be harsh. Tell her that this behavior of hers make you feel uncomfortable and insecure. Tell her you won’t be able to continue with her she keeps behaving like that!

    Hey, don’t take it lightly but don’t be harsh. Tell her that this behavior of hers make you feel uncomfortable and insecure. Tell her you won’t be able to continue with her she keeps behaving like that!

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