Aarchi
Explainer

A friend of mine has finally left her very abusive relationship. Even though he never physically harmed her, but he was such a narcissist. Poor girl was left with literally no confidence and no friends or life outside marriage, Finally she met another man (a colleague) who has helped her make this decision of leaving her husband. She is staying with me for a while now, till her divorce gets final. The problem is that she keeps crying that she could not sustain her relationship. i mean, why is she feeling guilty of coming out a relationship with that monster!!!

Broken from inside after 11 long years of one-sided love and sacrifice, and today I find that he is going out with a colleague from work. He hasn’t ever said he loved me, never initiated physical relationship, never taken me out unless I forced him. We don’t have children because he said he didn’t want any. Today, don’t know what took me to look at his phone while he was in shower. 100s of lovey dovey messages, number of baby shona voice notes. I locked the phone before he came out and we’re both in office now. But I don’t ...

Riya Lal
Seeker

We r married snce 23 yrs now. my husband use to beat me (only when drunk) in front of my children. now, both my kids hv left home to go to colg. I do not want to be alone with hsband at all. It is been more thn 1 yr when he last beated me. But i am scared that he will start again. please tell me how can i stop him frm drinking wihtout his knwldg.

Aditi
Seeker

My husband always makes fun of my dark complexion. Many times I tried to make him understand that’s I don’t like making fun of myself, but he continuously does it.What should I do to make him stop saying anything about my complexion, because I am really fed up of these things.

Babs
Seeker I deserve the life I desire

I am just here to thank @Shila Dave mam for helping my friend out from her toxic relationship! I was so afraid that she was going into depression, but thankfully she is a like a new person now. Of course she;s not ready to get into another relationship yet, but I am sure she will get there. Guys, therapies do work. Please do not hesitate to reach out if you feel a situation is causing you too much hurt. God bless you Shila mam

I am married to my school friend’s sister (who was younger to us by years). Our’s was an arranged marriage. That my wife’s sister was my school friend was found after our marriage was finalized. So, obviously, whenever I have met my friend, we talk like before, but my wife keeps doubting us. What to do?

Sophia
Seeker Still learning about Life...

How do I tell my friend (with benefits) to stop saying he loves me? I’ve told him before I’m not emotionally ready for a relationship but he doesn’t get it. My anxiety is at it’s peak and I’m ready to block my only friend.