I did marriage in pressure of my father, I don’t like my husband getting physical with me. Though he is considerate and gentle, I don’t think I will be able to have a relationship with him. This is causing me mental trauma! What do I do, do I broach my husband, or my mother about this?

This is something quite common I think, but I dont know how to deal. My husband gives me just enough money for houeshold kharcha. Not even 100 rs more. If I have to buy anything else, i have to ask him and he decides if I should buy it. He earns good, he buys expensive dresses for me also sometime. But they are never my choice. And if I dont wear them, he dont buy anything for me for a long time. What should i do?

After nine years of marriage, my husband still doesn’t know or care about what I like or dislike. His way is the only way. I’m very annoyed. What ought I to do?