My wife doubts me very much when I call somebody. She started blaming me, her emotions like a roller coaster, so what should I do to overcome it?
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My wife doubts me very much when I call somebody. She started blaming me, her emotions like a roller coaster, so what should I do to overcome it?
You can never truly know what another person’s relationship is like, so it’s better not to pass judgment or contrast your world with theirs. In the event that you end up falling into correlation, it can assist with making a rundown to help yourself to remember every one of the reasons you love your accomplice. This will move you into a more certain outlook that will assist you with managing struggle in a more sure manner. To pivot a rollercoaster relationship, it’s critical to distinguish and address the underlying drivers. Converse with your accomplice and check whether you can inspire them to open up, yet additionally set aside some margin for self-reflection and request.
You have to reflect on when and how her behaviour started. They say there cannot be smoke without fire.
Did you, consciously or sub-consciously, do something to instigate her suspicions? A simple gesture of yours could have been misconstrued by her as suspicious.
Take her out on a romantic date, give her a personal gift, then talk to her directly about this issue. Tell her frankly that you love her, but her behaviour is mentally effecting you. Communicating resolves 99% relationship problems!
Agree with @jenny
be true to yourself, that you have not given her any reason to doubt you.
And if her doubts are baseless, then be very transparent. Do not resist her questions, answer them truthfully, once she sees you have nothing to hide, she will stop doubting you.
peace!
Too much insecurity leads to too much toxicity so be careful with that. And if it’s a case that you are not giving him proper time so give her time, bring her gifts. Women love gifts.