My neice is very close to me. She is working in a good MNC. A junior in her department had recently approached her. He is smart, from a good family, a decent fellow (they hv been working together since almost a year now.)
She is in a dilemma, since he will always remain her junior unless either switch company. same with salary. She doesn’t want to start a casual relationship, and thinks they are certain to have ego issues if they move ahead. I am at a loss to advice her. What should I tell her?
If she is not ready for it, don’t force her. Let them be friends and know each other, usually, this happens when we have a bad past or saw one. So yeah give her time.
I think it she should listen to her heart only. not to you or even parents. If she thinks he is not right for her, then tell him. If she love and respect him, then give one chance to him.
Unfortunately finances triumph love.
In any relationship.
this is the sad truth that I have seen and experienced. I would personally suggest her to tell the guy to try getting placed with a much better salary and position. And then they can try having a go at a relationship. but if she has any ounce of doubt, she should not get start anything. It’s difficult, but it will better long-term.
As the saying goes, its better to err on the side of caution.
And a heartbreak will be worse. I am with your niece. If she thinks this ego issue can come up, it most certainly will.
As someone said, tell the boy to change the company first, who knows by that time he will already lose interest if he is seeking a causal relationship.