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my husband had an affair a few months back, he told me and asked for my apology.
It’s okay now, he is very loving and gives me a lot of attention. I do love him and I want to love one. But, there is this very good friend of mine who calls me every other day and tells me again and again that ‘once a cheater, always a cheater’. Now I am confused. Can I trust my husband or not?
He had told you about the affair by himself which means he’s guilty You should trust your husband and you both give time and space to each other. Don’t get influenced by any other person.
If he is realizing and he did come and confess everything then you should definitely accept it and be happy. And if he loves you and gives you importance then there should be no second thought.
You need stop talking to this “good” friend about your husband. Just change the topic whenever she raises it.
I do not mean that her intentions must be bad, but you are the only one who can understand the current situation. Someone else can read it wrongly and get influenced.
It’s best that your emotions are not impacted by some bad words of someone who does not even know the situation.
Thank you everyone for your advices. I am trying hard to move past it, will follow my heart!