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My husband always makes fun of my dark complexion. Many times I tried to make him understand that’s I don’t like making fun of myself, but he continuously does it.What should I do to make him stop saying anything about my complexion, because I am really fed up of these …

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My husband always makes fun of my dark complexion. Many times I tried to make him understand that’s I don’t like making fun of myself, but he continuously does it.What should I do to make him stop saying anything about my complexion, because I am really fed up of these things.

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  1. Relationship Advisor Expert Relationship Advisor
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    • Hi, i am not sure why your husband is insisting on you wearing make up all the time? Is he himself spic n span throughout the day? If so, then maybe it’s something important to him. Like I am a cleanliness freak, and I expect my husband to keep everything neat and clean too.
    • I’d really suggest talking this out with him. Come to a compromise from both sides, because wearing make up all the time is of course not feasible, neither is it good for your skin. But making him feel important in your life is also necessary. Try and talk in depth, you both will definitely be able to work a middle way out. 
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  2. Seeker

    This is not done at all. When I was a child my friends used to make fun of my complexion as well. They used to make fun of me all the time. It put a negative impact on my mental health and my self esteem and self confidence dropped down. I had take therapy in order to start accepting the way I was. Hence, making fun of someone about how they look is not never acceptable, even in jest.
    You need to make him understand that this makes your feel uncomfortable and this small act can become a huge unnecessary barrier in your long term relationship. Sometimes a small crack can bring down a huge mountain. I hope he will understand how it feels and stop doing it to you.

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  3. Seeker

    A relationship is only sucessful if there is respect and acceptance for the person as they are. It seems that his love is subject to his own conditions. It makes no sense to have a one sided relatioship. Please think it over

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  4. Seeker

    Such toxic person! i say return word to word. Focus on one of his shortcomings and start doing exactly what he is doing to you. And do it at the same time he does, dont care in front of who you say. If he is willing to insult his own family in front of random people, then he deserves a sip of his own medicine.

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