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My husband always makes fun of my dark complexion. Many times I tried to make him understand that’s I don’t like making fun of myself, but he continuously does it.What should I do to make him stop saying anything about my complexion, because I am really fed up of these things.
This is not done at all. When I was a child my friends used to make fun of my complexion as well. They used to make fun of me all the time. It put a negative impact on my mental health and my self esteem and self confidence dropped down. I had take therapy in order to start accepting the way I was. Hence, making fun of someone about how they look is not never acceptable, even in jest.
You need to make him understand that this makes your feel uncomfortable and this small act can become a huge unnecessary barrier in your long term relationship. Sometimes a small crack can bring down a huge mountain. I hope he will understand how it feels and stop doing it to you.
Please feel free to dm me if you want to talk about the situation, you must be a very stressful situation. My heart goes out to you, dear
A relationship is only sucessful if there is respect and acceptance for the person as they are. It seems that his love is subject to his own conditions. It makes no sense to have a one sided relatioship. Please think it over
Such toxic person! i say return word to word. Focus on one of his shortcomings and start doing exactly what he is doing to you. And do it at the same time he does, dont care in front of who you say. If he is willing to insult his own family in front of random people, then he deserves a sip of his own medicine.