my cousin is a 23-year-old woman who will wed in four months. It’s a prearranged union. Even though they have been dating for five months, she still does not adore har fiance! In fact, she despise him for his actions. Due of pressure from society, my parents aren’t encouraging. What ought she to do?
DO NOT Date HIM.
I am literally pleading.
Convince your parents, then fuck the society.
When you feel suffocated while sharing a bedroom with him, society won’t come to your aid and support you. When you are sobbing your heart out in the bathroom, society won’t step in and assist you. Simply put, this is a prescription for disaster.
It’ll be a constant nightmare.
On this one, believe me.
It still isn’t late for her, I mean she is not even married yet!
What will happen later ? We are talking about her entire life
She has to take a stand for herself yar. Tell her to do anything, shout, cry, emotionally blackmail her parents, whatever it takes for them to cancel the marraige.
It will be even more insulting if you get a divorce, a broken engagement is nothing in comparison, infact, its so common these days.
Please stand by her, increase her confidence. I can personally talk to her if you want.