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My brother has a girlfriend since 5 years. College affair. They both joined an IT company together. Last week my bro proposed to her, but she went away without replying. 2 days later she messaged that she will only marry if my bro gets a GOvt job,
This is a shock to all of us, since we all know and like the girl.
My bro has never wanted to join any Govt office. He was crying on me last night. What dO I do?
I think you should ask your brother to move on and forget about her
This girl seems highly toxic and issuing an ultimatum to someone you love is very wrong. If she cannot accept your brother for who is, then she will be never satisfied with him. Next, she will ask him to become a CM. Just help your brother move on man
Don’t judge me, but maybe she is not feeling that her future will be financially secure with your bro, hence she is asking him for a more permanacny and security before agreeing to marry him. Or maybe her parents have kept a condition. Ask your bro to go to her place and ask her why exactly is she asking what she is. If her reason is selfish, leave her.
But if she has genuine concerns, then ask him to placate her and tell her he will give her the best life anyone can.
WOW, your answer makes me seeth. So why was she going out with him since so many years, after knowing that he is not into Govt Job? Just passing time till her parents find a rich IS officer, is it?
Also, why not talk on face, if she has a problem. Discuss with the guy in place of heartlessly sending a message.