My boyfriend broke a 2 year relationship with me saying long distance does not work.
is it true or he is just pervert?
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I would like to add that I have myself coached many couples to overcome the long distance relationship problems. Most of them are happily married now. Long distance definitely works, but requires major commitments.
I am not sure why you used the word “pervert” here.
He might be accused of shying away from actual responsibilities and from the hard work that obviously comes with maintaining a long-distance relationship.
Maybe he’s afraid of actual commitment.
Please communicate your concerns to him. If he is not ready to take the relationship seriously enough to work towards it, then maybe you need to get away from such flimsy relationship.
Long distance definitely works it is just that you need to put extra effort to make each other happy. He was just not for you, he was a regular guy who just gets bored after a few years but a special one will anyway stay no matter what the situation is.
We cannot say that he is a pervert maybe he didn’t want to continue ahead with you and saw this as reason to breakup with you, in any case you should be happy that at least you will know that he never wanted to work on this relationship and now you find a guy who wants to be with you and work to keep you with him.
He is just a pervert. Every relationship works if you work hard enough and you truly want to be with each other! you deserve someone who wants to be with you no matter what the problem is.