Let's make a deal - Communication Matters!

Wife:- I have had enough, I don’t want to live with you anymore!

It’s always you against me. We keep fighting about same thing over and over again and never try to find solution. You have been so busy in your life lately that you can’t even come home on time. We share this home, so don’t you think we should share responsibilities too?

Husband:- Well, fine by me! This place is not home anymore. It’s like a jail; everything I do you keep an eye on it. I am tired too.

Seems like we both agree on one thing after a long time! Let’s go for it..

Wife:- Wow, how easily you agreed! Not for a second you thought about saying no. You didn’t even fight for me to be in your life.. This is how desperately you want to get rid of me? Was what we shared so bad for you?

Husband:- You said you wanted to separate. So it means you are the one who is unhappy in this relationship.

Wife:- I didn’t mean to say that.

Husband:- Then what did you mean?

Wife:- I wanted to say that you don’t care about me at all. Your life is all about your work, parents and then friends, where am I in it?

Nowhere, I don’t even exist in your life. Right?

Husband:- Why would so say something like that?

You mean the world to me, my life revolves around you. It’s you who I think about 24 hours, it’s you who makes me want to grow, it’s you who made me the person I am today. But the thought that I cannot keep you happy with me, I cannot take it! If being away from me will make you happy, then I would let you go.

Wife:- No, you don’t make me unhappy. You can never make me unhappy.

Husband:- Then why you say all that?

Wife:- For you to pay attention to me! Past few months felt like I was losing you and honestly, losing you was like losing a part of me!

Husband:- Darling, I am sorry you had to go through all of this without me and because of my work life. I don’t want to let you go, you are the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Wife:- I know baby, I don’t want to let you go either.

Let’s make a deal? From now on we will communicate about every single thing in our life, we will even try to understand unsaid words of each other. Can we do that?

Husband:- Of course, we can and we will! You make me fall in love with you all over again & again, you are irreplaceable for me.

Waise, How do you do it?