I’m going through a really tough situation right now. How do you move on from a man who only wanted to use you physically? Though I did realise this a long back, but kept flitting in and out of the relationship. Last month, I asked him to accompany me to the company party, and he expressed such disdain over my physical appearance that it completely shook me! I told him to leave then and there.
The problem is, he hasn’t tried to contact me at all since the breakup. It’s been tough to get over everything. I feel miserable, completely shattered. After waiting for a week, I texted him saying that we were more than just a physical connection and that I deserved better. All he replied was ‘You told me to leave, I left. It was your choice and I am following it” That’s how it ended, with no further contact.
I don’t want him back, and I never want to see him again, but these feelings are really getting to me. How can someone be so heartless? Did all those moments we shared mean nothing to him? It hurts that he could just walk away so easily. How do I get over this? Have any of you experienced something like this before? It feels like I’ve been used, and it’s breaking me!