I’m a tall girl so I prefer to date tall men. However, it’s hard for me to find men who are over 6 feet. I feel judgmental but I just don’t want to be the “bigger” one. It will make me feel manly.
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I’m a tall girl so I prefer to date tall men. However, it’s hard for me to find men who are over 6 feet. I feel judgmental but I just don’t want to be the “bigger” one. It will make me feel manly.
I feel for you. I have the same issue. When I go out with my much shorter friends I always get designated the taller guy if we meet a group of guys. If he’s short I don’t go for it though for the same reasons as you. So it is a struggle to find someone. I think you should stick to your standards but I have conceded and have dated guys the same height as me who claim to be taller because it makes them feel better. They keep insisting they are taller and that I am short!!. I bet you will find this if you date a guy the same height as you. Stick to your guns, keep persevering and you will find a taller guy who is actually compatible with you. Good luck.
Why do you even care about explaining your choices to anyone? You want something, you know it and that’s it!
Everyone creates a mental image of the person they want to spend their life with. It’s human nature. Why would you compromise on your expectations just because you are afraid of ‘what will people say’?