If you met your soulmate when you were young in life, both married to other people, and still have an emotional and physical relationship with them, are you cheating on your spouse or your soulmate?
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Yes because it seems you and this individual made a choice to keep in contact and be physical with each other knowing darn well you are both married to other people. You are setting yourself and the other person up for failure and that’s not real love. If you truly believed this person was your soulmate, you would have tied the knot (got married to them) with them and not some other individual (your also setting up your current wife to be extremely hurt) so I have to believe your “soulmate” idea might be one sided. But if that’s the case, why would you want someone who is more than likely being unfaithful to not only you, her current husband but probably others your not aware of.
You don’t marry your soul-mate, you become one.
Marriage is not a job, that you can leave one and try to find another as convenient. You both have to keep working to keep the love and respect alive in your marriage.
Bollywood movies have completely fried our brains. Movies that glorify infidelity (Kabhi alvida na kehna, hum dil de chuke sanam) went on to become blockbusters!
But, real life doesn’t work that way. Don’t let an old flame destroy what you have now.