I worked in the automobile industry. Recently, I joined a new company, which is completely male dominated. So much so, that I am the only female in our entire department of around 30. It is a huge opportunity for me, but it requires additional dedication and hours, since my boss is very strict. However my boyfriend of 2 years has started feeling insecure about the relationship and wants me to leave the company before we get engaged by this year-end. I love him from the bottom of my heart, but this side of his has shocked me. Am I wrong to put my career first or should I start looking for a new job? Totally confused!
I worked in the automobile industry. Recently, I joined a new company, which is completely male dominated. So much so, that I am the only female in our entire department of around 30. It is a huge opportunity for me, but it requires additional dedication and hours, since my boss …
Shraddha
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Hey, you are not wrong to put your career first but it is not a bad idea to start looking for a new job as working in a male dominated company can be exhausting both mentally and physically. But if you feel like it is huge mile stone for your career then discuss it with your partner and explain him why you should continue to work with this company and how there is no need for him to be insecure about you working there!
Hi dear,
I myself have worked in a male dominated company for almost 8 years. I can understand the struggles of working in such a competitive environment! I personally would suggest that you organize a family get together with colleagues that you work closely with. Let your husband meet them and see for himself how you conduct yourself in such situations. This would increase his confidence in you, and his confidence would further increase your own esteem in your abilities.
Another indirect advantage of such a get together can be that when your male colleagues see you interacting with their own family, they would be dissuaded in approaching you casually.