I worked in the automobile industry. Recently, I joined a new company, which is completely male dominated. So much so, that I am the only female in our entire department of around 30. It is a huge opportunity for me, but it requires additional dedication and hours, since my boss is very strict. However my boyfriend of 2 years has started feeling insecure about the relationship and wants me to leave the company before we get engaged by this year-end. I love him from the bottom of my heart, but this side of his has shocked me. Am I wrong to put my career first or should I start looking for a new job? Totally confused!