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I am a 27 year old girl, good looking, and with a good job. I found a match through an online matrimony. We talked a few times, and then our families met up. It was all going well, and we got engaged last month. The problem is that my Fiancé now wants to..

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I am a 27 year old girl, good looking, and with a good job. I found a match through an online matrimony. We talked a few times, and then our families met up. It was all going well, and we got engaged last month. The problem is that my Fiancé now wants to get physical before getting married. He says he wants to check the ‘physical compatibility’. What does this even means? What if he says he is no longer interested in me after we get physical? What do I do?

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  1. Explainer Being cool is being your own self, not doing something that someone else is telling you to do.
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    He is one desperate dude!
    And no, you are in no obligation to “check” any sort of compatibility.
    Infact this act of his should raise a red-flag about your emotional compatibility.
    Say no to his face, and if he get angry or bullies you, leave his sorry a** asap.

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  2. Leave a little sparkle, wherever you go ♥

    NO, a big big NO
    You have a choice, and don’t you forget it. Even after marriage, no-one can force you to get intimate. What he is saying seems like a desperate attempt to get close to you, but if you are not comfortable you can say no to him.

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