I have been married since a few years. But My husband was never happy with me. He startted having affair within one year of marriage. He now wants his girlfriend to move in and wants me to go to my mother house.
I do not want to divorce since it will bring shame to my mother and father. What do I do?
You don’t seem very old. Also, there is no mention of kids, so I assume you don’t have any.
What is stopping you from leaving?
How is your own happiness less than what “other” people think?
Take your life in your own hands. Your so called husband has been mentally abusing you, this has made you lose confidence in yourself.
But you are already so strong. Don’t compromise dear, ask him for your share, ask him to give you enough money to love life (alimony, I belive)