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I have been married since 2 years. My wife and I always fight about food, I love all kinds of food but my wife doesn’t cook well. My mother has always fed us delicious home-made dishes. I have been asking my wife to learn, but she doesn’t want to. I don’t understand how to explain? We both are working.
If you like eating good food, please learn how to cook!
It is the simplest solution which will work for both of you.
After marriage, many girls face many problems in their in-laws’ house, in which the topic of cooking remains the first. If you do not like the food of your wife, then you should take her for a walk in solitude like park, movie in such places where you can talk to her openly without any disturbance. You try to know her likes and dislikes with some depth and tease the topic of cooking and discuss with her that she is the best cook in the world and talk positively to her, inspire her to learn, tell a new way. If you ask her to learn by doing in this way, then the matter will definitely be made, she will not feel bad and she will also take interest.
Your wife’s best friend is her mother and always will be. If your wife does not know cooking well, then you should discuss with her mother and ask her to give tips to your wife or you can also take help of her sister or her special friend. You have to take help from your wife’s friend or close friend only because if you ask your wife for good cooking, then you may also have a fight. One thing you can also tell her indirectly that by watching a good recipe with the help of YouTube will help to make good food, because you like to eat and the biggest thing is that whenever she is cooking you can also help her in cooking. This can make your point. Else the last option is to learn cooking yourself 😊
Cooking classes for couples. Why don’t you both join such classes and learn to cook together. I can guarentee that you will love it!
If you are newly married, then your wife will have trouble in cooking because she may not have cooked food in her house before marriage. If you are a food lover, so you must know how to cook, then you should teach your wife to cook with love herself, maybe she will learn easily by your teaching. This common activity will also be good for your relationship. And who knows, with time she will also start enjoying making new cuisines.