I have been married for 20 years now, we have no intimacy left in our relationship. she won’t even let me touch her. Is it normal?
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I have been married for 20 years now, we have no intimacy left in our relationship. she won’t even let me touch her. Is it normal?
Marriage is a lot more than simply physical intimacy.
I am not saying that it is not important, but it is not the only thing!
If you both love and respect each other, then this issue is easily solvable simply by talking about it.
Tell him that you miss the intimacy, and then plan a romantic date together. Send the kids to a relative or to someone whom you trust. Get ready like you used to, buy a gift for him, could be a naughty one!
DO NOT talk about household or kids’ problems. Just talk about yourself.
Do this at one time every week, or at least once in two weeks.
You will see the changes very soon
All the best dear
I think you should talk to her about your sexual needs and ask her what is making her uncomfortable! After her response suggest her that you guys should go for couple therapy together and work on your relationship.
According to me its normal. Physical intimacy is not everything sometimes you have to connect emotionally. If you guys are not connected emotionally than you should start working on your relationship.