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I have a problem, my bf says he loves me a lot. We are going out for 6 months. But he never shows me his whatsapp. He takes his phone even in bathroom. His whatsapp is face-locked, I cannot open it. I feel that he is hide something. What can I do to see his chats?
a big HA!
he is definitely hiding something. I am not saying that he is cheating, it could be somthing else also. But he is hiding.
You need to sit down and decide for yourself that you trust him or not? If you cannot trust him, then tell him clearly. If he is still not ready to share, then it will be best to move on. because commitment cannot be without trust & sharing.
I am one of those guys. I like to talk to 3-4 girls at one time. And i feel for every girl, but i cannot stop myself from talking to all of them.
It is wrong I know, but my point is that even i keep my phone with me all the time and don’t show to anyone, not even my friends.
so if your bf is also doing this, maybe he has another gf.
Gut feeling is never wrong if you are feeling something fishy, they directly tell him when you meet that you have got a doubt and you want to check his phone and if you don’t do it now, you will regret so don’t let yourself regret it.
Maybe he has trust issues, from some previous relationship, or from some other experience? it takes a long time for someone to start trusting again after being hurt.
You can still talk to him that this action of his makes you feel bad.
I hope things have gotten better now. Something of this sort has happened with me also, but my husband was actually fighting a gambling addiction. He would hide his phone from me and never tell me where he was. I used to feel betrayed, but I finally confronted him. I then got to know. But good thing was I was able to help him in this journey, now he also regrets that he tried to hide from me earlier.
Can I be a little blunt here, why do want to see his whatsapp? 6 months is not a long time. Some people consider sharing social media passwords a proper commitment, maybe he’s not ready for this huge step yet.
I ‘d say just be with him & see if he’s actually a good person and a compatible partner, rather than fixating on this other thing.
And if this one small action of his is enough to make you feel insecure, than this relationship is definitely not a healthy one.
Hope this helps ✌️