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I am an independent girl from a modern upper-class background. My parents have never ever kept any restrictions on me while growing up. I was always able to wear what I want and go out with our friends, which included boys. I got engaged last month…

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Babs Seeker I deserve the life I desire

I am an independent girl from a modern upper-class background. My parents have never ever kept any restrictions on me while growing up. I was always able to wear what I want and go out with our friends, which included boys. I got engaged last month with a guy suggested by my family. You can say it is an approved-arranged set-up. His family has known ours since quite a long time.

The thing is now my prospective husband and his family has started pointing fingers at me. Like I should stop wearing skirts now, or that I should think about quitting my job, etc. I had no idea they were this conservative! What do I do, our entire family and peers know about this engagement, it will surely spoil our family image if we call off the wedding. I am so confused!

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  1. viral Explainer Being cool is being your own self, not doing something that someone else is telling you to do.
    2022-06-25T16:09:08+05:30Added an answer on Saturday at 4:09 pm

    I am sure a little spot on “societal image” is not more important for you or your parents than your entire life!

    You said you an independent modern girl. Then do what such a girl would do! Stand up for yourself and clear all your issues before getting married.

    Peace!

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  2. Shila Dave Relationship Advisor Relationship Advisor/ Matrimonial Consultant
    2022-06-25T16:05:39+05:30Added an answer on Saturday at 4:05 pm

    You have to talk to your parents about this dear. You said they’ve always supported you, then why are you feeling apprehensive in approaching them now?

    Maybe it’s a simple misunderstanding on your future in-laws’ part. It is important that you and your parents clear out all doubts before getting into a life-long commitment. Please reach out to them and tell them all your apprehensions.Β 

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