I did marriage in pressure of my father, I don’t like my husband getting physical with me. Though he is considerate and gentle, I don’t think I will be able to have a relationship with him. This is causing me mental trauma! What do I do, do I broach my husband, or my mother about this?
Hey Vamika, I know you and your hubby have been having problems recently. Cn this physical aversion be a result of the fights?
The mental stress directly effects the sex life, that’s for sure. You did mention couple therapy once, were you able to get that?
i can understand the woes of a sexless marriage, though in my case its my husband who doesn’t want relationship.
We have 5 year old twins. Since then, we had relations hardly 3-4 times, husband says sex is only for kids, now we have kids, so we don’t need sex.
But i have learnt to live with this. anyway kids take all the time. Just keep yourself busy with other things.
I think you need to see a doctor if this issue has come up so long after marriage! Maybe it’s your hormones. Because sometime females go through a lot of deficiencies that make them lose libido. I would really suggest a visit to your physician before thinking of anything else.
Contrary to common views, men can understand when his wife is faking or is actually enjoying.
What are your husband’s thoughts on this? As a man, I’d say he will appreciate if you went to him and talked about this problem. Else, he will start thinking different things and this will only increase the differences.
A good married life has balance – mental, physical and emotional. If any one of the aspect is lacking, then it would create a rift in marriage. Please do go talk to him