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I did marriage in pressure of my father, I don’t like my husband getting physical with me. Though he is considerate and gentle, I don’t think I will be able to have a relationship with him. This is causing me mental trauma…

Vamika
Seeker Lost myself trying to please everyone else!

I did marriage in pressure of my father, I don’t like my husband getting physical with me. Though he is considerate and gentle, I don’t think I will be able to have a relationship with him. This is causing me mental trauma! What do I do, do I broach my husband, or my mother about this?

4 Answers

  1. Explainer

    Hey Vamika, I know you and your hubby have been having problems recently. Cn this physical aversion be a result of the fights?

    The mental stress directly effects the sex life, that’s for sure. You did mention couple therapy once, were you able to get that?

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  2. i can understand the woes of a sexless marriage, though in my case its my husband who doesn’t want relationship.

    We have 5 year old twins. Since then, we had relations hardly 3-4 times, husband says sex is only for kids, now we have kids, so we don’t need sex.

    But i have learnt to live with this. anyway kids take all the time. Just keep yourself busy with other things.

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  3. Seeker A book a day, keeps the reality away

    I think you need to see a doctor if this issue has come up so long after marriage! Maybe it’s your hormones. Because sometime females go through a lot of deficiencies that make them lose libido. I would really suggest a visit to your physician before thinking of anything else.

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  4. Seeker

    Contrary to common views, men can understand when his wife is faking or is actually enjoying.

    What are your husband’s thoughts on this? As a man, I’d say he will appreciate if you went to him and talked about this problem. Else, he will start thinking different things and this will only increase the differences.

    A good married life has balance – mental, physical and emotional. If any one of the aspect is lacking, then it would create a rift in marriage. Please do go talk to him

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