I cheated on my boyfriend and now i cannot stop thinking about the guy i cheated on with.
how to get him out of my head?
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I cheated on my boyfriend and now i cannot stop thinking about the guy i cheated on with.
how to get him out of my head?
Hi dear,
I have personally had many people come to me with this very issue.
The simple reason for the youngsters is that they want to seek new experiences before they settle down with one person. On the other hand, the middle aged people cheat when their life has become a routine and they crave excitement.
In either case, it is important that you understand why you cheated.
Do you not love your boyfriend anymore?
Does he not satisfy all your needs?
If the answer to above questions is ‘Yes’, then you need to break the relationship, because it obviously has no future.
If ‘No”, then ask yourself, will you do this again if the opportunity arises?
If No, then you need to forgive yourself and move on.
As far as forgetting about the other boy goes, you need to answer all the above questions and get to the root of the infidelity. Once you understand yourself, then will you be able to move ahead and forget him.
Hi There,
Just one question, do you want to remain with your boyfriend after this?
I mean, if you cannot stop thinking about the other guy, then why not go with him only, instead of making yourself and your bf unhappy in a relationship which is not working out, it seems to me.
Just one advice, please do not tell you current bf about this episode. Even if you decide to break off, or if you remain with him. Nothing good will come out of telling him.
Infidelity is never good, so I’d really say find someone who will fulfil all your needs. Peace and love✌️
Know the answer why did this happened? it’s obvious if you cannot stop thinking about the other guy it’s either that you don’t love your boyfriend anymore or it’s the guilt that eating you from inside. In both the cases you need to forgive yourself first and then look around you to solve the problems.
Pls do not tell him if you still love him
Not everything has to be told to everyone. Sometimes you have to do things to save others from being hurt.
Forget what hapended and move on now, without making any such mistakes.
Dude! i can relate with you, i have been through same situation and had to breakup with my boyfriend. the guilt was so much that even after he forgave me I broke up with him because I couldn’t face him! Sorry, no advice though.
I am kind of on the other side right now, this lady is trying to flirt with me, even though I am married and she herself is married! I don;t knw why she feels the need to flirt, when she claims that her husband is very loving. Please think about how this will effect the other person, your current boyfriend. What if he did the same thing to you. Cheating is never ok dear.
I’d say break off with him and do not get into any sort of commitment till you feel 100 % sure that you are ready.
Please do not stay with any person whom you don’t feel committed enough to stay faithful to.
Neither he not you deserve this.
Everyone should be with a person who will make them feel like the most important person in the world.
First of all, it’s good that you realized your fault.
Second of all, now that you miss him after cheating on him then you should respect that person’s feelings and emotions and let him be the way he wants, so all you should do is accept what you did, learn from that mistake and move on.