I and my wife keep fighting all the time. Literally all time. We are married for 3 years and do not have child. We are both working, so we hardly get any time together, morning is rushed due to getting ready for office, we come home late night. Then as we have dinner, we start fighting on something, then she goes to sleep in another room, this is how last 6-7 months have been. I don’t know if i even love her. Should I think of separation?
I feel you should end it if there is too much toxicity or the best option would take out time and go on a good trip because a lot of times when we are working we tend to lose our mind after working so get off from that zone for a while.
I think you both are very stressed from office and home responsibilities. So, you both are taking it out on each other. Take a holiday together, switch off your phones and laptop in this vacation.
Me and my husband also took a vacation, when we were facing a huge problem some months back. It really really helped at that time, we both were able to get our issues sorted.
Giving Time is the most important part of any relationship. Due to workload and stress at work, we indulge in a fight or arguments with our colleagues, parents, brother, sister, etc. but we never think of separation from them. Take a break from work, not relationship have coffee or tea together, cook dinner together and watch a movie and relax. After this when next you’ll go to work you both will be having some good moments together. This will help you perform efficiently at work also your relationship will go smoothly.
Why don’t you guys try counseling? It is obvious that you have a problem. The next most important step also you have taken – acknowledging the problem.
I’d seriously advice to take counseling / therapy before things move beyond the point of no-return.