I am a single 28 year old man. I am earning very good, I have bought my own flat, I have good investments. In short, I am financially secure. But I do not want to get married, ever. I have no interest in either girls or boys, or in any kind of physical relationships. But I love kids. I would like to adopt a child. But I am not sure how to proceed. Has anyone gone through this process personally, and can guide me?