I am little overweight, and my husband always makes fun of my weight, which I don’t like, I even tried to loose some weight but It did not work. What do I need to do so that he could not make fun of me?
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I am little overweight, and my husband always makes fun of my weight, which I don’t like, I even tried to loose some weight but It did not work. What do I need to do so that he could not make fun of me?
Hey, my view might hurt you, and I apologize at the outstart.
Men have this weird need to show themselves off in front of everyone else. It could reflect through their clothes, their profession, their car, and occasionally through their partners’ looks. Maybe at some inner level, he thinks that your looks reflect his choices, and though I agree this is completely wrong, I can still understand it.
Losing weight can be good for you too, right? Please consult a nutritionist and a fitness expert. If your weigh gain is due to some medical issue, isn’t it better if you come to know early and you can start proper treatment?
Looking good would boost your own confidence also.
And answering to your query, once your husband sees putting in so many efforts, he will surely stop teasing you and start supporting you in this journey.
Girl first of all you should know that no matter how much you weigh, you are an absolute gorgeous queen and you should not be ashamed of how you look. If your husband hurts your feelings by mocking at your weight, ignore him. I know it is difficult because he is one who should support you at all times but it is okay, be independent, be strong. You are a strong woman and you do not need to change yourself for anyone. Love yourself and take care of yourself. I am sure you look amazing just the way you are. Carry yourself with confidence and put your chin up.
You are not alone, half of the Indian population is unfit. I am not saying that not being fit is okay or should not change yourself. What I mean is, you should not be ashamed about your weight. You tried to loose some weight as you said and that is good because trying is what matters. If your husband makes fun of you because of your weight, talk to him and tell him that hurts your feelings. He will understand you and will not make fun further. It is important to communicate your feelings with your husband because otherwise he will not know how you feel.