I am in a process of divorcing my cheating abusive husband of 5 years. I have one child, but he is staying with mother and father, so its not a problem. The thing is this husband is openly talking non sense about me to everyone. He is putting insulting quotes on his fb, and it is obvious that he is talking about me. He even called a few common friends to tell them that I was cheating on him, hence he left me. I am so angry right now! Can i take a legal action against him?
This is very hurtful dear. You have my sympathies. First thing should be to take screenshots of all his slanders. Then block him and all his friends , and tell your own friends & family to block him.
I’d suggest to go the lawyer who’s handling your case and tell him about it. I am sure this will count against him when the case comes to court.
This might be his way of abusing you, even while he’s not near. A typical narcissist. It is hurting his ego that you took a decision to leave him, and he is retaliating by playing mind games.\
The best thing would be to send a legal notice to him (talk to your lawyer about this) that he is harassing you, and block him and any communication with him. If he has any sense, he will stop these cheap tactics.
I hope you resolved this matter! I know that an impending separation can cause people to act in weird manner, but it should not hurt anyone, You have to stay strong sister. Because this is just the start. If he is being so difficult before the divorce, it will only get worse asthe case proceeds. In India, it take years sometimes to get a divorce final, especially if one side is making things difficult. Keep courage in yourself,