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I am a 30 years old working girl; I have just created my profile on a matrimonial site and found a guy. I talked to him on phone. He was nice. But then I checked his FB profile, and there he looked completely different from his matrimonial profile pics. He looked much older on social media! Though our conversation was interesting, and he made me laugh, I cannot get over his looks. What do I do?
Hello, I also liked a girl on a matrimonial website. She was charming in her profile picture and had an attractive profile.
I have decided to meet her; she was not like that in her profile when we met. I respectfully told her that I want some time, she also agreed. We became very close friends after that, we would chat for hours, talk every day after office.
After six months of this, we got even closer and started understanding each other. And I realized how shallow I was being. “Looks don’t matter if a person has an honest heart,” and I proposed to her to marry and she was ready.
Looks are fake, only soul is real, my friend
don’t give more importance to looks. find a person who will keep you happy.
Hi dear, I have also faced this problem, but I changed my mind-set and got married to someone I met on the matrimonial website. The profile picture was very attractive. But, when I met the guy, he was not as good-looking.
However, our conversations were mentally stimulating, and he was very respectful towards me always. We have been married since 3 years now. He is a great husband and I thank God every day that I did not make a decision based on looks alone.
According to my experience, if you are new to a matrimonial website, you must be aware people lie a lot on these platforms. Many of my friends have faced the same problem. People are a little bit insecure about their looks, maybe that’s why he uploaded a pic where he looked younger.
You should confront him directly about this if looks are so important to you.