I am a 25 year old guy. I am earning well in comparison to my peers. I live with my parents. I am not able to go out with friends and colleagues much, since my job requires sitting till late evenings and my parents do not like me staying out till late. Hence, I cannot attend late night parties also. All this background, because I do not have a girlfriend, while every person of my age around me is committed. I know there are dating apps and all, but I am not very comfortable going online about this. How do I go about trying to find someone? Hope it’s not too weird a question!
I would personally advice you not to worry so much about making a girlfriend. This will only make you more self-conscious, nervous and awkward while meeting anyone.
Focus on yourself. This is a time for growth, career-wise and personally. Trust me, free time will keep getting lesser as you climb up the corporate ladder.
Join a gym, get a new hobby, something which will take you out of the house and let you meet some new people.
This will also be an opportunity to make some friends, and who knows maybe a friendship could develop into something more!
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I am a working 27 year old male. My problem is that I have lots and lots of female friends, but not a single girl-friend. This has always been the case since I was small. Girls would always… – Absolute Talks
Rudra, if you can’t even take out time to make a girlfriend, how will you take out time to keep up with the relationship?!
You are young. Try to get at least one late-night every week. Talk to your parents about this, tell them you will call every hour if they are worried.
Girlfriend or not, you need to live your life.