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I am 35, unmarried. I have a partner, but it’s more like a living-in-the-moment sort of relationship. We practically live together, go on vacations, do household work together. I love living like this, without the hassles ..

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I am 35, unmarried. I have a partner, but it’s more like a living-in-the-moment sort of relationship. We practically live together, go on vacations, do household work together. I love living like this, without the hassles and responsibilities that getting married invariably creates. On the other side, she is clear that she wants to get married. And since I do not want to, she and her parents have started looking for matches on online matrimonial platforms. I do love her, and I was hoping that we are able to continue this relationship, without either of us getting married. How can I convince her that this will the best option, living like we already are without pressure and problems that come with ‘marriage’.

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  1. Explainer Being cool is being your own self, not doing something that someone else is telling you to do.

    I think you need to respect her decision man. If you are not ready to change your mind about marriage, why would you want to force your decision onto your partner? Take the high road, maintain your dignity, and accept her choice to leave you for a path she believes in.
    Peace ✌

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