I adore my hubby dearly. I decided to marry him against my parents’ opposition. Although there were disagreements between my family and his family, my parents accepted him quite well. Before we got married, my husband promised to resolve all disputes and to look out for the needs of both families. However, soon after our wedding, my spouse started avoiding us. His parents were well taken care of by me, but he did nothing. In fact, he forbade my parents from coming to see us. He cancelled their tickets and blamed it on me. I adore him, but because I am my parents’ only child, I also want him to appreciate and cherish my family.
I am aware that this only makes up.0000001 percent of the story.
First off, neither your parents nor his are loved or respected by you. Because you would never marry against your parents if you truly loved them. All you are attempting to do is obtain what you must provide for his parents. The problem is that your parents and his parents both said many nasty things to him and you while everyone was against your marriage. He was fighting for his love at the time, so he was able to process or ignore everything, but now that he is married, he is unable to handle the same things.
He is thus attempting to disregard difficult situations and emberssing.
You want to sit together with your husband and have a proper talk, call a mature adult who has been with you through this entire period.
A common friend also would be good, someone your husband respects. Put your views in front of him, ask for his thoughts.
You do not know what has caused this sudden change in behaviour. Please communicate with him and find the cause before taking any other step.