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Asked: Sunday2022-08-21T23:11:51+05:30 2022-08-21T23:11:51+05:30In: Relationships

Hello , I am proud mother of 3.8 year old daughter.i left my husband house when she was just 9 months . I wait for some time just to see may be if are away my husband might changed his drinking and other bad mantality but he did not .after …

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Hello ,

I am proud mother of 3.8 year old daughter.i left my husband house when she was just 9 months . I wait for some time just to see may be if are away my husband might changed his drinking and other bad mantality but he did not .after 1 yaer with lawer advice started the divorce case inbetween he did not even try to get the trust on him also his family did try to short out the matter other than go back to him without any trust . And thing is he don’t want to give divorce also .Now it’s been almost 3 year i am fighting and case was in our favor till the end but after doing so many efforts we loose our case.
Now i am worry about my daughter and my self how we can come out from this thing. his family is not that much mature to listen us, my husband is in all bad habits don’t even listen to his parents .and i just wanted to be come out fro. This toxic relationship.plz help and advise

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    David Seeker The Devil and I, get along just fine
    2022-08-22T13:24:54+05:30Added an answer on Monday at 1:24 pm
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    Alcohol is a monster sister.

    It eats away a man, and his entire family. And you have to understand that alcoholic can never change his ways.

    He will always remain same. SO you will have to get away at any cost.

    I hope you have financial stability to support yourself and child. If not, think about a job first.

    Best, try for a job far away from you husband’s city. Try for a new country if possible. These days Canada visa is easier to get. Just leave and move.

    Your husband will realise that you are seirous, and he will agree for divorce himself when his life will not move forward because of you.

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  2. Meena_Aunty Relationship Advisor Expert Relationship Advisor
    2022-08-22T12:38:01+05:30Added an answer on Monday at 12:38 pm

    Hi dear,

    I am so so very sorry to hear this. I do not understand how you could lose such a case! Indian laws are completely with you.

    I would very sincerely request to take consultancy from another lawyer. Message me, I will suggest a lawyer who will take first call without charge for you.

    Then you can decide your options.

     

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  3. Shila Dave Relationship Advisor Relationship Advisor/ Matrimonial Consultant
    2022-08-22T13:14:24+05:30Added an answer on Monday at 1:14 pm

    Dear,
    This pains me a lot. You and your daughter must have gone through a lot trauma, physical and mental.
    though I cannot give you any legal advice, I am here if you want to talk.
    Sometimes talking alone can give a lot of hope.
    Message me anytime

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  4. Anonymous
    2022-08-22T15:03:58+05:30Added an answer on Monday at 3:03 pm

    I go through a very very bad divorce some years ago. fortunately we had no kids.

    He used mentally and physically harased me. Same like your, drink drink drink always. I got marry just after college, so i was not earning also. He go to ofc at 8:30 morning. come back by 10 – 11 sometime 12. He shouted at me when eating dinner, and go to sleep. money for household also he give very late, till house was empty- no food, no milk, no washing powder. I was crying everytime. My parents also told me, stay with him, we cannot take you back. Because he is rich and you will not find such good earning husband again. But I was qaulified. I start to looking for jobs nearby, as he was in ofice all day and never called me also. I found one, not so good but it gave salary. I saved for almost one year. My friend from office helped me to a small place. I finally leave from his home. Everyone called me then, and told me to don’t  be stupid and come back. Even my parents. But I dnt listened. He did not give divorce, i said ok, no problem. this happen for 3 years, then he said he wants divorce because he is marry again, someone else.

    I asked for money to give divorce. He had to give. Now I am happy, single, not rich. But very happy.

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  5. viral Explainer Being cool is being your own self, not doing something that someone else is telling you to do.
    2022-08-22T13:10:50+05:30Added an answer on Monday at 1:10 pm

    This is Atrocious Man

    You have to think about yours and your daughter’s life. I understand that your family is not helping you, but there must be someone who would support you, a friend, a neighbour, a colleague?

    Please gather more evidence of mental harassment and re-submit the case.

    I am sorry to pass judgement here, but it doesn’t seem that your lawyer was thorough. Any good lawyer would have gotten the divorce and gotten monetory compensation from husband’s family.

     

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  6. jenny Explainer A Dentist and a Mom
    2022-08-22T13:18:45+05:30Added an answer on Monday at 1:18 pm

    You need to file a harassment case so that your husband and his family cannot harm you.

    Tell him that you will take the case back only if he agrees for divorce. I don’t know how the exact procedure will be, but you need a good lawyer dear.

    3 years is a long time to fight and raise a child alone. Please please take legal consultation again.

    You should get alimony and also get child- support payment from him.

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  7. Avichal Sinha Legal Advisor Legal & IT Consultant with 13 years of Experience
    2022-08-22T13:32:14+05:30Added an answer on Monday at 1:32 pm

    Hi, I am a divorce lawyer and have successfully handled cases like yours. Feel free to message or call me

    81976-15355

    We can discuss the aspects of your case and work out why you lost.

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  8. Rekha Stay Strong and ignore the World
    2022-08-22T13:56:35+05:30Added an answer on Monday at 1:56 pm

    I can feel for you. It’s tough to deal with such situations.

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  9. vaibhav Seeker An IT consultant and a bookworm
    2022-08-22T17:20:05+05:30Added an answer on Monday at 5:20 pm

    Just saying what others have already said. Leave him quickly, file complains, file case again, take alimony, take child support.

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